The First Date With A Ukraine Woman

The most important moment in any relations between man and woman is their first date. Psychologists say that the first impression is the most long lasting one, so how can you plan the date to make the best impression on a Ukraine woman?

First of all, tell her in advance that you are going to Ukraine and would like to see her. It may seem almost unreal, but some foreign guys want to surprise their Ukraine woman, so they arrive unexpectedly. Unfortunately, in 90 cases out of 100 it has diametrically opposite results! Svetlana, 32, sociologist: “I remember the first foreigner, Robert, who came to me and didn’t say a word about his plans. And then, all of a sudden, he called: “I’m in Kiev. I’ll be in Sumy in 4 or 5 hours”. I felt nothing except for shock! That day I had to perform results of my monthly work... but when we met, I regretted that I didn’t go to a business trip for month!!” So, rule #1: a Ukraine woman must be “expecting” you; your visit must be welcome.

Don’t forget about a small present for a Ukraine woman or at least a bunch of flowers. Don’t buy expensive presents, such as a gold ring, as it may turn out that your Ukraine woman won’t take them. For the first date a box of sweets or a teddy bear (if she’s18-23) is excellent. If she tells you that she’ll give the toy your name, you are on the right course.

If she doesn’t know English well enough an interpreter is a must! Don’t feel shy to ask a Ukraine woman in your letters about her language skills. Very often Ukraine women use translation services to correspond with foreigners. Svetlana continues: “When Robert came to Ukraine, I, like most Ukraine women, could hardly speak English. I had nothing to do but call my tutor and ask her to come. We had to keep silence for an hour till she came. It was horrible and I won’t ever forget those uneasy minutes of silence”

Don’t take a Ukraine woman to the restaurant right away. The ideal alternative is to have a walk around the city, visit monuments or historic places. This will give you an opportunity to talk about different subjects and get to know each other better. If the conversation doesn’t get going, you can easily switch the gears, saying: “What a wonderful view”; or “Looks great!”; or “What is this?”. Svetlana told us: “Our first date was in a café. The food stuck in my throat and I didn’t know what to talk about. And unfortunately, there was nothing that could catch my eye. The interpreter did her best to take the strain off, but everything was in vain.”

End a date with a Ukraine woman in a fine restaurant. It’s romantic and it will give you an opportunity to try the national Ukrainian cuisine. Don't expect that after the first date you will end up in the sack! No, you are going to have to work a lot harder and get to know a Ukraine woman much better before you can expect your lady to give in to your desires. As a rule, Ukraine women, who sent their profiles to marriage agencies, are quite shy and sex at first meeting is unacceptable. So, it doesn’t make sense to insist. Just let the things take their normal course.

A lot of pieces of advice can be added, but the main point is to be yourself. Feel free to show a Ukraine woman your emotions, share her delight or countenance her if she needs it. Show her, that you are not indifferent to her and that she really matters to you.

You’ll be glad you did!